How to avoid a heartache when a relationship has ended Part I Romance-ology Series

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imagebroken2014heartThe Key to avoiding a heartache when a relationship starts is not at the ending,  but at the beginning. It is absolutely vital that you be completely honest with your self.  You have to start a relationship with the attitude that you’re in this experience  to share the treasure of happiness within that you already possess.  If you are looking for some one to make you happy;  then you are already setting your self up for a heartache.   This may be a big problem for many people seeking a relationship in order to find happiness,  but it’s a fact that you must know in order to avoid heartache.    Seeking to find some one to make you happy only leaves you vulnerable to be used and gives your power away.  Seeking to share the happiness already within in you is like taking a wonderful dish to a potluck.  They bring their dishes and you bring yours; Now you have something really special.  You have enhanced both of your lives by sharing both of your gifts with in.  If this mutual relationship has to come to an end for what ever reason, you will be able to bow out gracefully.  You’ll take a deep breath, learn from it and move on to offer your treasure to the next fortunate soul.

 

Treasures from the Heart

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We have been given a gift from the heart out of the mind of Lisa Cohen.   Lisa Cohen is a masterfully  creative writer with the special ability to inspire people to help others.  She is in the process of  promoting and finding the right publisher for her new book, “Grace is born.”    It is a story about  Grace,  a women who is able to triumph over tremendous suffering by promoting purposeful acts  of  kindness.

This amazing book poetically inspires concepts of empowerment, compassion, unity and  universal healing.    It is a parable book that focuses methodically on Grace and her victories through the  many obstacles that cross her path.    This book will inspire you to find the strength and wisdom to  conquer any physical or mental challenge you face.   It is a fun filled easy read.  It is beautifully and  masterfully illustrated by Judith Joseph.

Lisa’s intense search to find the right illustrator for “Grace is Born.” led her to Judith Joseph.  Judith’s  work joyfully reminded her of Chagle, another one of her favorite illustrator’s.   It only took Lisa a  moment after this comparison to know with all her soul, that she had found  the illustrator that would help bring this enchanting story to life.

Lisa Cohen is a licensed speech pathologist who resides in central New Jersey.  Her desire to inspire people to express kindness started when she began noticing that her patients were improving dramatically after practicing acts of kindness through helping others.   After this revealing experience, she knew that it was part of her destiny to create this inspirational book as a tool to promote personal healing through helping others.

 Embracing challenges with a gentle heart

April Yamasaki’s blog says Grace listens with a gentle heart while facing challenges and despair.  She embraces hope with patience and determination.   Grace is born, illustrates how we can transcend misery through are desire to help others reach their highest potential.

Lisa’s powerful inspiration for “Grace is Born”, came in the wee hours of the night months prior to her fiftieth birthday.      It was such a compelling experience that it started her on a mission to have copies of “Grace is born” in braille, ASL video, in addition to hardcover and E-Book print format.    It is her heart’s desire to see this healing message read by the sighted, felt by the blind and experienced by the deaf.    To purchase “Grace is Born” email sparklepress@gmail.com.  Lisa also invites all interested in this healing experience to follow the Grace is Born Facebook page and twitter at Wordsofgrace@graceisborn.com.

Hello! Readers.   My name is Ramona Frye.  I am the writer of this delightful informative article.  I am also a female visionary.  I am anadventurous writer who enjoys feeding the soul with nurturing and uplifting stories, articles and scripts.  To view my blog visit: www.elavationsun.com.   To learn more about more women visionaries and join an incredible social network visit: http://www.braveheartwomen.com.

The Dream to Awakening

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The Dream to Awakening

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 A window to the soul

           There is a window to your soul in which you experience every night.  You go into this deep trance

like state where the subconscious mind becomes the ruler.  It expresses the deepest part of your soul’s

voice through its various images and symbols.   Through these symbols and images you’re taken in to

various life like experiences.  Some of them seem real and others are surreal.   These dreams are the

keys to open the door to a much deeper part of you. 

         Zion Sage, an experienced life coach and compassionate healer has the unique gift of intuitively

tapping into these dream symbols.   Through her dream analysis, she has the ability to decode your

dreams in order to find solutions to the mental and emotional blocks in your life.   Her exceptional

organizational skills, leadership skills and years of experience in psychology, behavior interventions and

massage therapy has allowed her to develop an extensive life plan for her clients.   This plan is a life

balancing plan which removes the conscious and hidden unconscious mental, emotional and spiritual blocks.

Once these blocks are removed you will start developing empowerment abilities that will

quickly allow you to awaken to your highest potential.    

        Zion Sages dream interpretation program is a personalized and fun way to discover the links

between the unconscious and conscious mind.   It will lead you on a fascinating journey down the road

of self- discovery and personal renewal.   Zion Sage is a powerful female visionary.  She is a women

facilitator for Brave Heart Women, a global community that encourages connection and prosperity. 

 The path back to empowerment

           Zion Sage lives in Atlanta, Georgia.  Her unique life coaching plan consist of catalytic conversations

that help you and your dreams actualize.    She has this rare ability to interpret signs in your waking life

by identifying patterns in your behavior, thoughts and emotions that hinder you from being your

authentic self.   Her exceptional ability to listen and analyze your subconscious dream state will allow

you to find balance and fulfillment.   

          We live in a sometimes very chaotic world with many challenges.  Most of us along are life journey

lose are focus through the fog of this chaos.   Zion Sage professional life coaching program is a profound

and effective way to find the path back to empowerment.   To learn more about this program and start

your new path of empowerment visit:  www.braveheartwomen.com   Email:  Zion Sage at: 

coachzionsage@gmail.com  Visit her on the web:  www.coachzionsage.com

         My name is Ramona Frye and I am proud to be a member of Braveheartwomen.com.   I am a

female visionary and an adventurous writer.    I am on a mission to enlighten and entertain through

writing articles, short stories and scripts that are about finding the path to personal empowerment.

To visit my blog and learn more about the New Light Zone of creative writing visit: www.elavationsun.com

If you have any questions email me at: ramonafr020@gmail.com

 

         

The Eternity of Film

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The beginning of movie magic

The magnificent birth of the first motion pictures was born in the 1890’s right before the turn of the century. It was a fascinating moment when the first movies were viewed by wide eyed movie goers.  Even before the sound of their voices resonated out of the mouths of the characters, movie viewers were hooked to the motion picture.   At the time, it seemed like the work of a genius magician.   More than a hundred years have passed and we’re still amazed by the magic of the motion picture. It has this special power in which it takes us away from our personal life and thrust us into a world of the movie. It is becoming the world’s number one entertainment experience with the rising popularity of the internet and it’s vast choices of movie sites. The movie becomes the puppet master when we’re captured in the world of film. It has proven for more than a century that it’s power to lure us into it’s world has not faded.

Our Instant three dimension world

Our minds are captured by the life like view we experience from a flat screen. We tune into the sensation of an illusive three dimensional world. In the beginning of our fascination we would dress up in our best clothes walk or ride to the theater and watch it on the big screen with dozens of other viewers waiting to be transformed into another world.
In today’s world of high technology we can watch a movie any where, are car, are bedroom, on the beach and even when we’re relaxing in a hot bubble bath. It is an instant vacation that only takes a quick click for us to be taken away into. Most people enjoy movies and spend about forty percent of their waking lives doing it. It is a monumental invention that will surpass all of are present lives and be passed on to future generations. Even if mankind moves to other planets, the eternity of film will still be experienced.

As a self proclaimed movie fanatic and screen writer, I am on a mission to educate and promote the work of film makers and all the crew that’s required to make film come to life. Stay tuned to “Film Zaps & the Building of A Movie”. I will be uploading short films by different film makers. Most of these films will be shorts or movie trailers created to promote the funding of unique film concepts. Help spread the word of short films and trailers. You now have the opportunity as a movie viewer to contribute to the making of movie magic and the eternity of film. Any questions regarding this article please email me at: ramonafr020@gmail.com

The Gift of Connecting through dance

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A way for special needs children and adults to share joy with the world.

          Every one has a special joy within to share with the world.   Special needs children and adults also have that gift.  They only need that special guidance to help them share their beauty and joy with the world.   Inner dancers Performing arts is a break through collaborative innovative non-profit program.   It has been uniquely designed to dramatically improve on the lives of special needs children, adults and their family through its socially dynamic and all inclusive dance classes.  

      Family members and special needs children and adults will have a magical experience as they explore  and learn the beauty of the inner dancer within.  Caroline Bossmeyer, Founder and Artistic Director uses four interdependent factors that will literally change the lives of consumers , their families and their community.

 These factors are: 1.   Inclusive social movement,  2.  Peer social interaction performances,  3.  Holistic classes,   4.  Engaged families and community.

      These techniques help create a well balanced and elating experience.  Inner dancers performing arts is a joyful path to communication through dance for special needs children and adults.   It is all inclusive organization for developmentally disabled children and adults that combines  developing  social skills, creativity,  exercise and entertainment in one unique and fun program. 

     Caroline Bossmeyer’s method of engaging the individual dancer by assisting them in utilizing all of their abilities first.   This method allows her to create a individual plan that will help them grow, co-create and enjoy their dancing experience in the most effective way.    Caroloine has a joyful fun loving and compassionate spirit.  She fills the room with joy as she patiently works with each dancer while inspiring and managing a group of dancers simultaneously.    She encourages and demonstrates dance routine that help to encourage social interaction and creativity.  Through this unique dance class  special needs children and adults get a chance to shine and let the world know that they have a voice.  They get to share their own unique style of dance while developing their  ability to focus, concentrate and listen.  To learn more about this amazing unique dance program visit:  www.innerdancers.com.  The founder Caroline Bossmeyer’s email is: caroline@innerdancers.com  

It was a delight and a blessing meeting Caroline Bossmeyers.   My name is Ramona Frye and I am a freelance writer on a mission to enlighten and entertain the world through informative, fun and innovative articles and short stories.    My daughter Kenya Frye is an eighteen year old autistic teenager.   The first time my daughter and I attended Caroline’s class was magical.   I had no idea how joyful it was going to be.   I was very stressed out when I came to the class for the first time.  It was during the crazy holiday season and I was running around like a chicken with its head cut off trying to get ready for the Christmas holiday season.   At the end of the session I felt like I had just had a massage in love.   It was incredible.   The music, energy and dance techniques are magical.   I encourage all families with children or adults with special needs to get involved with this program.   You will be amazed at how it helps not only people with special needs but any one who wants to connect to the beauty of the inner dancer within.    For more articles or shortstories by me visit my blog:  www.elavationsun.com   You can also email me at ramonafr020@gmail.com  

The Moral of the Story Is….

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The balancing of entertainment and knowledge:   

Are very existence is based on a story.  However;  the stories we focus on mostly,  are about the stories we read in magazines, novels, short stories, newspapers, online blogs, websites etc.   We delve deeper into stories and become more intoxicated by them when we watch movies, webisodes, cartoons, mini-series.  These stories have a variety of enticing genre’s that most of us are magnetized towards.     What are the story categories are you most enticed by?   Do you even know?  Maybe you’re the type that turns the television on and watches what ever keeps your attention for more than ten minutes. 

     Even reality shows are a story.  However; they have a different format than the traditional story that always have a beginning, middle and end.   Reality shows focus on the emotional drama that unfolds in a certain family, group of people or businesses everyday life.   They edit out all the stuff that’s not interesting enough to keep your attention for more than twenty minutes.   They like to term it reality in order to make you think you’re getting a virtual tour of the person or persons life.  It is a well laid plan and it has a moral of the story.  Reality shows greatest way of keeping your attention is to lead you to believe that their everyday existence is always like what you are viewing.   It’s a big commercial selling you false lifestyles which appear to be real to you. 

      How can you learn from these fake stories that are made to appear real.    Well, If you know how to decipher the format or the story, you can learn something.  Even if learning that this show gives you no knowledge at all.  You may even learn that it is planting a lot of negative ideas in your mind. If you can learn how to choose and watch movies or read stories that entertain and inform you simultaneously,  then you have unveiled a powerful tool for releasing a lot of anxiety and stress.  I know that you might be asking yourself something, you’d never asked before.   How can something that I’m watching or reading for entertainment purposes, teach me something?  This is an important question because most people have very little leisure time. It adds up to about twenty percent of your life. This is why your leisure time is very important and should be handled wisely.   

How entertainment can be poisoning your mental state:

   It’s great to have entertainment time.  You’ve worked hard all day, week and year for it.   Learning the moral of the story from the movies or books that you are absorbed in, will help release some of the anxiety that you are picking up from this experience. Let’s face it, most of the movies or reality shows we watch, involves people experiencing a lot of stress and anxiety. Don’t worry! You don’t have to give up your love of drama, horror or thrillers. You can still learn something from them, and learn how to alleviate some of the pressure they are putting on your subconscious mind. This is why it doesn’t matter if its a very violent or horrific plot.   There usually is a message that you can learn from it. 

How

         Learning the moral of the story can lead you into to learning how others lose their moral and experience suffering because of it.   Most horror stories are about the victim and the victimizer.  And usually, the victimizer was once a victim them selves.   These type of stories teach you that this is a vicious cycle.    Even zombie movies have a moral of the story within the plot.  The zombies were once normal.  Then alone came some scientist or alien race that poisoned them with some chemical or supernatural mind device that changed them into these mindless monsters.  The mindless monsters go out, bite and torment their victims then they turn into zombies too, and the vicious cycle continues.   The same goes for the countless vampire movie plots.  They were all once normal humans.  Then some force or person made them their prey, and wanted them as their follower, so they ate some of their blood for dinner.   They left them enough blood to keep them alive then they turned into vampires.   It’s the same vicious cycle in a different form.   You can look at your own life and see if there are any negative cycle continuously repeating.   If you can be aware that you’re on this nightmare merry go round, then you can stop it and get off or jump off. 

     You can also start reading or watching movies that encourage or inspire you.    It is easy to pick up the moral of the story with these types of movies or books.  These stories can be fictional or non-fictional.   Below I am listing a few stories with great moral learning lessons.
Saving Private Ryan: A story about men who were willing to risk their own life to save another man so he could be reunited with his family. All of his siblings had died in the war. This is a great story to teach empathy toward humanity.

      2.   Avatar:  This is a story of transformation in which one man  who changes from someone self absorbed in his own goal, to someone who gives up his own career to help a civilization. This alien culture had been brutally oppressed and killed in order for a cruel government to gain their precious natural resources.  A great story for learning about courage and determination.

      3.   The Color Purple:  This story tells of two siblings who suffer through years of being apart, but never give up their desire to reunite. A great story to learn patience.

I just listed a few popular movies and the moral of their stories.  I also listed what you can learn from it.     Different people have various taste in movies and stories.   It’s up to you to choose what will entertain you with out causing you to have a lot of extra emotional baggage. The moral of this story, and why I am writing it is; to start elevating the minds of humanity.   We have a choice in how we enjoy are life.   Learning from every story can be something you can look back and say; Now I realize what I needed to learn.

    I know you may be attached to reading or watching things in certain genre’s such as:  suspense, mysteries, thrillers, horrors, fantasy, sci-fi,  supernatural, dramas.   Many movies have a small amount of all these categories within the unfolding of the plot.   The more you start thinking out side the box, and start tuning into something different, the more you can learn.    Entertainment is not really just to help you get away from your life.   It’s also there to help you learn more about life.  
Stay tune for more stories from ramonamewrites at http://www.elavationsun.com. Keep taking the time to read a new story or watch a new movie.   It is a time to go into another world and have an adventure for the mind to enjoy, and the soul to feel.

  

              

A woman with a burning desire for education

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HORN BILL’S DAUGHTER

A woman with a burning desire for education.

By Ramona Frye

 

Freedom from oppression through education

          Angela Raduk Miller is one of the rare human beings who was born with a sense of their life’s purpose.  She was born during the baby boomer era in the small village of Sarawak, located in the tropical Islands of Malaysia.   Her parents knew she had this extraordinary gift and gave her the name, “Raduk” which means in her native Badayuh language, “A girl of burning desire.”   It is this natural burning desire to survive and triumph over all obstacles that helped her to survive and pursue her mission.   She has written this extraordinary inspirational book called “Horned Bills Daughter.”  This book takes you on an inspirational adventure of one woman’s determination and courage to survive.  She struggled through all odds to become educated and fought for educational rights for the women of her small village and around the world.    Education became the way to connect to the world community and learn about all different types of cultures.   She learned to respect others more and honor all of humanity regardless of their cultural differences.   Winning through education helped her obtain the courage to inspire women to pursue education for empowerment worldwide.

Using difficult challenges to gain courage and determination

          We live in a world of many obstacles and experience many unexpected challenges.   Women face specific challenges every day that require them to be strong and courageous.   They need that extra inspiration and determination to triumph over any obstacles that may be challenging them in their business, social, career or romantic life.   Angela Raduk Miller reveals in her book how you can use many of the challenges in your life as a way to build courage and determination.  In this book you will be entertained as you are inspired to learn how to gain that ultimate power that will help you manifest your destiny.    It is a tropical journey in which she fights to triumph over poverty, discrimination, lack of modern healthcare, debilitating superstitions and opression.    

Changing disempowering beliefs

          Angela Raduk Miller’s book has been rated a five star read by amazon.  It is an informative book that will help you to start letting go of disempowering beliefs or negative mind conditioning.   Please visit: www.amazon.com  to purchase her astounding book “Hornbills daughter.”   It is time for a universal equalization that stops women from being held back based on old distorted beliefs that were created to help males stay in power of the planet.   We now have the resources to fight any discrimination or disempowerment that we may experience as women.   We have made it to “2014.”  Let’s make this a year we start on are great path to great change for the empowerment of women.

          Ramona Frye is a universal creative freelance writer specializing in creative fiction and non-fiction short stories, articles and screenplays that inspire and encourage women to create a winning spirit.   She happily admits to being a dedicated optimist and a movie fanatic.  She specializes in writing supernatural scripts and stories surrounding women’s issues.   To learn more about her writings visit:   www.awakeningofmyra.wordpress.comwww.elavationsun.com, www.ramonamewrites.com.

          Ramona Frye encourages you to find out more about how you can be involved in helping women and yourself in gaining empowerment to live an extraordinary life visit: www.braveheartwomen.com.